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Author - graham

Late Traveller and facilitator looking forward to sharing my travel journey as I backpack around South East Asia and maybe the world.

Before

Before this site,

I was a Facilities Manager for a company in England.

Like most people, we’ve had tough times, and we have had to work harder to stay afloat. Every year, I organised an annual work night out where I treated all the staff to a meal and drinks. This was my way of saying thank you for all their hard work throughout the year.

Every year I would organise an annual work night out, where I would take all the staff and treat them to a meal and drinks. It was my way of saying thank you for all the hard work they did throughout the year.

We used to call it the Ozzies as I would give out awards and presents to the staff who did well.  There were also a few fun prizes, just to make it entertaining.  Like who “Pissed the Boss off the most” and “Best email,” it was part of my life. In fact, the staff who worked for me became like family.

However, back in 2016, a few major things happened.

(as well as a few minor ones)

Which got me to thinking how precious life is and how little time we have on this planet.

I took steps to explore other interests that I wanted to pursue. One of these interests was traveling; throughout my life, I have always dreamed of visiting faraway places that I read about in books or see on movie screens. Like many others, I thought I would wait until retirement to fulfill these dreams.

One of these was travelling; throughout my life, I have always wanted to visit faraway places that you read in a book or see on a movie screen.

But like most, I figured one day I would retire and do it all then.

However, as I got older, so did my dreams; I watched people older than me fail to fulfil what they said was their lifelong ambition.

I began to wonder what if this happens to me?

So towards the end of Dec 2016, I booked a 4-week holiday to South East Asia thanks to a friend who has travelled around there and knew the best places to visit.

He spent over a week helping me find the best deals, including the right flights, transfers, discounts, and extras to make it a trip to remember. Thank you, Emmett, for giving me such a wonderful introduction to travel!

Looking back at photos, I was going through a lot, as I am clearly not looking healthy. Carrying too much weight, red-faced, and grey hair all adding to a look that possibly would have made my life a bit shorter had I carried on down that path.

The following year, 2017, I did it again; this time I booked everything, found some cheaper places, and some different accommodations. Three different trips, approximately 5-6 weeks each time, one in Europe and the other two in Asia.

I tried a Hostel for the first time at 46 and loved it; it is a cheap but good, clean way of experiencing places if you are on a budget.

However, I still spent the usual amount of money as you would on a holiday, so I started thinking, what if I could still experience this travel adventure but on a smaller budget, which is more cost-effective and planned better?

Hence this blog: I have read lots of travel tips from the blogging community, the guys and gals who have been doing this for years, and they all say it can be done, give you a few tips here and there, so I decided to try it and blog as I go.
It may work and be a success or an epic failure, but as with all things in life, you have to actually do it to find out.”

Graham, August 2018

What’s my Camera?

I was given a gift or rather collection from the Business Centre I left back in Feb 2018 which amounted to quite a large amount of money (many thanks to all at Lenton for this very kind gift)
So I purchased probably the most expensive item I am taking with me which is a Nikon Camera and a few add-ons to it.
Hopefully, you will see the quality of photos once I start taking them, or rather figure out how to use it!

What travel equipment am I taking with me

So I thought I would list what I am taking on this trip, bearing in mind I am backpacking through many countries, so I have gone for lightweight stuff to easily carry in my backpack. I must point out that these are my choices based upon my own preference and research, and I will update you as I travel and use the equipment on whether it’s good, relevant or lacking in some way.

Main Items

Rucksack

Osprey Men’s Farpoint 70 Travel Pack, Jasper Red, Medium/Large [amazon_link asins=’B014EBKVPE’ template=’ProductAd’ store=’httpwwwfahdes-21′ marketplace=’UK’ link_id=’31f7203d-a561-11e8-8104-07b5a76ca274′]

I spent quite a bit of time online and visiting travel shops to find the one I felt most comfortable with. If you go to YouTube and search Osprey, you can watch many people pack them and see the pros and cons of each size. I chose the red colour because I noticed at airport carousels more are black or grey than any other colour, so I figured it would be easier to find mine.

Sleeping Bag

Because I am staying in Hostels to keep the cost of travelling down, I needed a good but lightweight sleeping bag. After, again, lots of searching, I opted for the following
Snugpak 1 Season Travelpak Sleeping Bag available at Gapyeartravel.com

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Why am I doing this?

Why am I doing this?

Where do I start? This is my way of appreciating life and our wonderful world before it’s too late.

To everyone who thought I would never do this because I was too addicted to work and never made time for myself, guess what? I have! 😂

I realise that if I wait any longer in life to pursue my dreams, it might be too late.

The plan is to return to Southeast Asia and explore more of the places I visited during my previous holidays. I want to experience backpacking across the country, staying in hostels, and possibly working abroad to earn my keep, allowing me to extend my travels for as long as possible

The Purpose of This Website

I aim to create an online diary of my adventures, mainly for myself to look back on when I’m older. At 47, I’ve already started to forget some of the places I’ve visited, when I went, and with whom. I don’t think I’m going senile just yet, but who knows? 😉

I also want to share my experiences with family and friends back home and, hopefully, inspire more people from our older generation to be brave enough to travel.

The Name of the Site

The name of the site is “Nos,” which stands for Nomad Opportunities, Solved! I aspire to help people find travel opportunities, whether on a budget or not. It’s all about my travel experiences as someone from the UK.

After all, we are all nomads from time to time.

Hope you enjoy the journey!

If you like doing what your doing do it until you dont

For Mark a good friend

December 2016

Singapore

This was my first trip to Singapore, and my first visit to Asia. The first thing that struck me was the heat. I had an unforgettable first impression: Singapore has a unique character that sets it apart from any other country I have visited.

The city is rich in culture, blending both Eastern and Western influences. I immersed myself in vibrant areas like Little India, Chinatown, and Arab Street, where my senses were overwhelmed by the diverse smells and sights of these cultures—an experience unlike any I’d had before.

My first experience

It was around 11:30 AM on a Thursday in December when I sat outside in a bar under a fan, desperately trying not to pass out from the heat. The temperature was about 38 degrees Celsius, and I was already on my second ice-cold beer.

I had just spoken with a friend back in England, complaining—as is typical for us Brits—about the weather. I thought I might as well embrace the stereotype head-on. “It’s too hot! Everywhere I go, I sweat. If I step into a shopping mall, it’s so cold that my shirt almost freezes to my back. Then I go back outside into the heat, and I’m as wet as if I had just taken a shower.”

After hanging up, a voice behind me asked in an American accent, “First time in Singapore?”

I turned to see a larger guy with a friendly smile. “First time in Asia,” I replied.

walk slower, speak slower and drink cold

In Asia, I realised the importance of slowing down how we speak and move to conserve energy and keep our bodies cool. I noticed that while many Westerners were sweating profusely in their T-shirts and shorts, Asian men in suits and ties remained remarkably comfortable.

They drank coffee, but iced rather than hot; they walked to the MRT, but more slowly than I did; and they used umbrellas for shade, drank water to stay cool, and many wore vests under their dress shirts to keep their shirts from absorbing too much sweat.

I learnt a lot those first few days; I still drank ice-cold beer, but in the evenings after the sun lowered its rays.

We became good friends, and I have many good memories of those days in Singapore. Over the next few years, I would spend a lot of time in the city-state. He offered me his spare room whenever I wanted it, and until COVID came, we had a good, regular friendship.